Mt. 18:15<\/a>b)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\nSomeone has done or said something which has offended you or bothered you in some way. The Bible says to go and tell him his fault, but you don\u2019t want to do it; it\u2019s too difficult.<\/p>\n
So you start brooding about it. You begin rehearsing what he has done, how he was utterly in the wrong. When you should be working, your mind is going over all the details, and your gastric juices become sulphurous. When you should be sleeping, you resurrect the unpleasant incident, and the pressure builds up in the boiler. The Bible says to go and tell him his fault, but you just can\u2019t face up to it.<\/p>\n
You try to think of some way in which you can get the message across to him anonymously. Or you hope that something will happen to shame him for what he has done. It doesn\u2019t happen. You know what you ought to do, but you dread the trauma of a face to face confrontation.<\/p>\n
By this time, the ordeal is harming you a lot more than it is harming him. People can tell by your glum appearance that something is bothering you. When they talk to you, your mind is off in another hemisphere. Your work suffers because you are preoccupied. In general, you are too distracted to be effective. And the Bible still says, \u201cGo and tell him his fault between thee and him alone.\u201d By a tremendous display of willpower, you have refrained from talking to anyone else about it, but finally the pressure becomes unbearable. You break down and tell one person-just for his prayer fellowship, of course. Instead of giving you the expected sympathy, he says, \u201cWhy don\u2019t you go and talk to the one who has offended you?\u201d<\/p>\n
That does it! You decide to bite the bullet. After rehearsing your speech, you obey the Word by telling him his fault. He takes it surprisingly well, is sorry that it has happened, and asks your forgiveness. The interview is terminated by prayer.<\/p>\n
As you walk away a great load is lifted from your shoulders. Your stomach quits churning and your metabolism returns to normal. You kind of hate yourself for not having had the sense to obey the Scriptures more promptly.<\/p>\n
\u0bae\u0bc7 25<\/p>\n
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25. Mai<\/p>\n
\u00bb\u2026 so gehe hin, \u00fcberf\u00fchre ihn zwischen dir und ihm allein.\u00ab\u00a0Matth\u00e4us 18,15b<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\nJemand hat etwas getan oder gesagt, das uns auf irgendeine Weise verletzt\u00a0oder gest\u00f6rt\u00a0hat. Die Bibel gebietet uns, zu dem Betreffenden zu gehen\u00a0und ihn auf seinen\u00a0Fehler hinzuweisen, aber das m\u00f6chten wir nicht tun, es f\u00e4llt uns zu schwer.<\/p>\n
So fangen wir an, dar\u00fcber zu br\u00fcten. Wir denken immer wieder dar\u00fcber nach,\u00a0was er getan hat, wie er so v\u00f6llig im Unrecht war. Wenn wir arbeiten sollten, besch\u00e4ftigt\u00a0sich unser Denken stattdessen mit den Details dieses Problems, und unsere\u00a0Magens\u00e4fte beginnen zu \u00bbkochen\u00ab. Wenn wir schlafen\u00a0sollten, f\u00fchren wir uns den\u00a0unerfreulichen Vorfall erneut vor Augen, und unser Groll erh\u00f6ht sich noch mehr.\u00a0Die Bibel sagt uns, wir sollen hingehen und ihm seinen Fehler sagen, aber wir sind\u00a0zu feige dazu.<\/p>\n
Wir denken nach, wie wir ihm die Sache vielleicht anonym klar machen k\u00f6nnen.\u00a0Oder wir hoffen, dass etwas geschieht, was ihn f\u00fcr sein falsches Verhalten besch\u00e4mt.\u00a0Aber es geschieht nichts. Wir wissen, was wir zu tun haben, aber wir f\u00fcrchten die\u00a0Konfrontation von Angesicht zu Angesicht.<\/p>\n
Inzwischen schadet die ganze Sache uns schon weit mehr als ihm. Die Menschen\u00a0k\u00f6nnen an unserem m\u00fcrrischen Auftreten ablesen, dass uns irgendetwas\u00a0\u00e4rgert. Wenn\u00a0sie mit uns reden, sind wir mit dem Kopf auf der anderen Seite des Erdballs. Unsere\u00a0Arbeit leidet, weil wir innerlich abgelenkt\u00a0sind. Wir sind ganz einfach zu zerstreut,\u00a0um irgendetwas effektiv anpacken zu k\u00f6nnen. Und immer noch sagt die Bibel: \u00bbGehe\u00a0hin, \u00fcberf\u00fchre ihn zwischen dir und ihm allein.\u00ab Mit einem gewaltigen Aufwand\u00a0an Willenskraft haben wir es bis jetzt vermieden, mit jemand anderem dar\u00fcber zu
\nsprechen, aber schlie\u00dflich wird der Druck unertr\u00e4glich. Wir brechen\u00a0darunter zusammen\u00a0und erz\u00e4hlen die Geschichte jemand anders \u2013 nat\u00fcrlich nur als gemeinsames\u00a0Gebetsanliegen. Aber anstatt uns \u2013 wie erwartet \u2013 zu bemitleiden, sagt der andere\u00a0einfach: \u00bbWarum gehst du nicht hin und redest mit ihm, weil er dir wehgetan hat?\u00ab<\/p>\n
Das gibt uns den Rest! Wir beschlie\u00dfen, in den sauren Apfel zu bei\u00dfen. Wir legen\u00a0uns die Worte zurecht und gehorchen dann dem Wort Gottes, indem wir ihm seinen\u00a0Fehler sagen. Er nimmt die Sache \u00fcberraschend gutm\u00fctig\u00a0auf, es tut ihm Leid, dass es\u00a0passiert ist, und bittet uns um Vergebung.\u00a0Das Gespr\u00e4ch endet mit Gebet.<\/p>\n
Wenn wir gehen, ist eine gro\u00dfe Last von unseren Schultern genommen. Unser\u00a0Magen flattert nicht mehr, und unser Stoffwechsel schaltet auf \u00bbnormal\u00a0\u00ab. Wir sind\u00a0nur irgendwie b\u00f6se auf uns selbst, weil wir nicht vern\u00fcnftig\u00a0genug gewesen sind, der\u00a0Schrift sofort und unmittelbar zu gehorchen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
May 25 \u201c\u2026go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone.\u201d (Mt. 18:15b) Someone has done or said something which has offended you or bothered you in some way. The Bible says to go and tell him his fault, but you don\u2019t want to do it; it\u2019s too difficult. So you start brooding… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-may"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=846"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1189,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846\/revisions\/1189"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}