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July 20<\/p>\n

\u201cA man that hath friends must show himself friendly.\u201d (Prov. 18:24<\/a>)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though all modern versions translate this verse differently, the King James Version enshrines the valuable truth that friendships must be cultivated. They thrive on attention but die through neglect.<\/p>\n

An editorial in Decision Magazine said, \u201cFriendships don\u2019t just happen; they have to be cultivated\u2014in short, we have to work at them. They are not built on just taking, they are built on giving. They are not just for the good times, they are for the bad times as well. We do not hide our needs from a true friend. Neither do we hold onto a friend only to have his help.\u201d<\/p>\n

A good friend is worth keeping. He stands by you when you are falsely accused. He commends you for whatever is praiseworthy, and is frank to point out areas that need improvement. He keeps in touch over the years, sharing your joys and sorrows.<\/p>\n

That is important\u2014keeping in touch. It can be done by letters, cards, phone calls, visits. But friendship is a two-way street. If I consistently fail to answer letters, I am saying that I don\u2019t consider the friendship worth continuing. I am too busy. Or I can\u2019t be bothered. Or I hate writing letters. Few friendships can survive on continued neglect.<\/p>\n

Our refusal to communicate is often a form of selfishness. We are thinking of ourselves, of the time, effort and cost involved. True friendship thinks of others\u2014how we can encourage or comfort or cheer or help; how we can minister spiritual food to them.<\/p>\n

How much we owe to friends who have come alongside with the Spirit-given word when it was most needed! There was a time in my life when I was feeling very low over a deep disappointment in Christian service. A friend who could not have known of my discouragement wrote a cheery letter in which she quoted Isaiah 49:4<\/a>, \u201cThen I said, I have labored in vain, I have spent my strength for nought, and in vain: yet surely my judgment is with the Lord, and my work with my God.\u201d It was just the word I needed to pick me up and set me to work again.<\/p>\n

Charles Kingsley wrote, \u201cCan we forget one friend,\/ can we forget one face,\/ which cheered us to the end,\/ which nerved us for our race?\/ To godlike souls, how deep our debt!\/ We would not, if we could, forget.\u201d<\/p>\n

Most of us have only a few close friends in life. That being so, we should do all in our power to keep those friendships strong and healthy.<\/p>\n

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20. Juli<\/p>\n

\u00bbEin Mann, der Freunde hat, muss sich freundlich erzeigen.\u00ab\u00a0Spr\u00fcche 18,24<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Obwohl alle heutigen \u00dcbersetzungen diesen Vers anders wiedergeben, enth\u00e4lt er\u00a0in der alten Bibel\u00fcbersetzung hier doch die kostbare Wahrheit, dass Freundschaften\u00a0gepflegt werden m\u00fcssen. Sie gedeihen bei sorgf\u00e4ltiger\u00a0Pflege, gehen aber\u00a0durch Vernachl\u00e4ssigung zugrunde.<\/p>\n

Ein Artikel in \u00bbEntscheidung\u00ab sagte: \u00bbFreundschaften ereignen sich nicht einfach,\u00a0sie m\u00fcssen gepflegt werden \u2013 kurz, wir m\u00fcssen an ihnen arbeiten.\u00a0Sie bauen sich nicht\u00a0auf blo\u00dfem Nehmen auf, ihr Fundament ist das Geben. Sie sind nicht nur f\u00fcr gute\u00a0Zeiten da, sondern auch f\u00fcr schlechte. Wir verbergen unsere N\u00f6te nicht vor einem\u00a0wahren Freund. Ebenso wenig halten wir uns allein deswegen zu einem Freund, um\u00a0seine Hilfe zu erfahren.\u00ab<\/p>\n

Ein guter Freund ist es wert, dass man ihn bewahrt. Er steht an unserer Seite, wenn\u00a0wir f\u00e4lschlich angeklagt werden. Er sagt uns, was immer an uns lobenswert ist, aber\u00a0weist auch offen auf die Punkte bei uns hin, die der Verbesserung bed\u00fcrfen. Er bleibt\u00a0\u00fcber die Jahre hinweg mit uns in Verbindung und teilt unsere Freuden und Leiden.<\/p>\n

Das ist wichtig \u2013 in Verbindung bleiben. Das kann durch Briefe, Karten,\u00a0Telefonanrufe,\u00a0Besuche geschehen. Aber Freundschaft ist keine Einbahnstra\u00dfe.\u00a0Wenn ich\u00a0auf Briefe nie antworte, sage ich damit, dass ich die Freundschaft nicht f\u00fcr fortsetzungsw\u00fcrdig\u00a0halte. Ich bin zu besch\u00e4ftigt. Oder ich will nicht gest\u00f6rt werden. Oder\u00a0mir liegt Briefeschreiben nicht. Nur wenige Freundschaften k\u00f6nnen trotz l\u00e4ngerer\u00a0Vernachl\u00e4ssigung \u00fcberleben.<\/p>\n

Unser Verzicht, eine Verbindung aufzunehmen oder zu erhalten, ist oft eine Form\u00a0von Selbstsucht. Wir denken an uns selbst, an die Zeit, die Energie\u00a0und die Kosten,\u00a0die wir investieren m\u00fcssten. Wahre Freundschaft denkt an andere \u2013 wie wir sie\u00a0ermutigen oder tr\u00f6sten oder aufmuntern oder ihnen\u00a0helfen k\u00f6nnen; wie wir ihnen\u00a0geistliche Nahrung vermitteln k\u00f6nnen.<\/p>\n

Wie viel verdanken wir Freunden, die mit dem vom Geist gegebenen Wort vorbeikamen,\u00a0als wir es am meisten brauchten! Es gab eine Zeit in meinem\u00a0Leben, als ich\u00a0mich sehr elend f\u00fchlte wegen einer tiefen Entt\u00e4uschung im Dienst f\u00fcr den Herrn.\u00a0Eine Freundin, die von meiner Entmutigung nichts wissen konnte, schrieb mir einen\u00a0aufmunternden Brief, in welchem sie Jesaja\u00a049,4 zitierte: \u00bbIch aber sagte: Umsonst\u00a0habe ich mich abgem\u00fcht, vergeblich\u00a0und f\u00fcr nichts meine Kraft verbraucht. Doch\u00a0mein Recht ist bei dem Herrn und mein Lohn bei meinem Gott.\u00ab Es war genau
\ndas Wort, das ich brauchte, um mich aufzurichten und wieder zur\u00fcck zur Arbeit zu\u00a0bringen.<\/p>\n

Charles Kingsley schrieb:
\n\u00bbK\u00f6nnen wir einen Freund vergessen, k\u00f6nnen wir ein Gesicht vergessen,\u00a0das uns im\u00a0Blick auf das Ziel ermuntert, das uns zum Lauf angefeuert\u00a0hat? Wie tief stehen wir\u00a0in der Schuld solch gottesf\u00fcrchtiger Seelen! Selbst wenn wir k\u00f6nnten, wollten wir so\u00a0etwas nie vergessen.\u00ab<\/p>\n

Die meisten von uns haben nur einige wenige Freunde im Leben. Weil dem so ist,\u00a0sollten wir alles in unserer Kraft Stehende tun, um diese Freundschaften\u00a0stark und\u00a0gesund zu erhalten.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

July 20 \u201cA man that hath friends must show himself friendly.\u201d (Prov. 18:24) Even though all modern versions translate this verse differently, the King James Version enshrines the valuable truth that friendships must be cultivated. They thrive on attention but die through neglect. An editorial in Decision Magazine said, \u201cFriendships don\u2019t just happen; they have… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1228","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-july"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1228","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1228"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1228\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1288,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1228\/revisions\/1288"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1228"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1228"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamilbible.org\/onedayatatime\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1228"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}